#21362
Reported speech, ha olyan kérdésről számolsz be, ami nem W-s (who/what/where/when/why), akkor használsz "if"-et:
Do you love me? - He asked me if I loved him.
Have you ever been to Mexico? - She asked me if I had ever been to Mexico.
Are you living here? - She asked me if I was living here.
A me elhagyható, élő beszédben el is szokták hagyni. a példák innen
#21362